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Heather McKay's avatar

Hi Paige - what struck me most in your reflections was your statement - "not only do teachers need to feel connected to me, but I need to feel connected to them". It was an important reminder that for our own growth as leaders, we also need to feel seen and understood. So, whether we think of these four conditions as steps for our staff or steps for ourself, they are a good way to build our relationships and ways we work together. Thanks for reminding me that how we are feeling is also important.

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Ryanne Deschane's avatar

Great post Paige!

In your introduction you talked about all those "little fires" that tend to get in the way of the real work if we aren't cognizant of how much of our time they are consuming. I think that feeds into all the elements of trust, but most specifically the consistency piece. If the "little fires" erode our consistency for meeting with kids and teachers, there is a breakdown in trust because all parties begin to question when and if you show up. When coaches/admin. are consistent in their actions, I really do believe anxiety decreases and confidence increases. I enjoyed reading your thoughts regarding Chapter 3. I too, even as a classroom teacher, appreciate the 3 legged stool analogy for guiding my interactions with colleagues, coaches and admin. In a society that hasn't placed enough emphasis on silence/wait time, it can feel awkward to pause rather than jumping to respond with an answer immediately. For me, that skill, along with inquiring first what my colleague, coach, or admin. might be looking for from me (coaching, collaboration, or consulting) are things I hope to grow more competent in.

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